It turns out that…

It turns out that…

Believe it or not, I’m flawed. My body language screams, “I can’t wait to leave” once I get bored with a conversation. The “yelling at my kids vs. other team members” ratio is at least 15:1 when I coach them in youth sports. I have a short attention span and...
Don’t be “that guy.”

Don’t be “that guy.”

You know the type. You’re in the middle of making a point and its clear the other person can’t wait to respond with their brilliance. Guess who enjoys a conversation with this type of “know it all”? Nobody. If you’re struggling with this affliction, try this approach...
The Paper Tiger with Rebecca Ward

The Paper Tiger with Rebecca Ward

What We Discuss in this Episode: What keeps us from admitting fear (5:45 to 7:15) What is the risk to allow this fear go hidden/ignored? (7:16 to 10:30) The connection between mind, body, and emotions (10:30 to 17:04) What is Somatic Therapy and why should we use it?...
Choices in 1970

Choices in 1970

In 1970, if you wanted to find information on a current topic, you had limited number of choices: TV (3 broadcast stations), local newspaper (which was delivered to your door), radio (typically 1-2 news stations). That was it. Because choices were limited, these...
Bad punch lines, burned food and unconditional love

Bad punch lines, burned food and unconditional love

My parents were flawed (Dad told horrible jokes and Mom was challenged in the kitchen)… however, they loved me unconditionally. I took that for granted until I had kids. It soon became clear (as a flawed parent myself), that unconditional love was the best gift I...
“I’m probably different from your other clients.”

“I’m probably different from your other clients.”

For 19 years, executives have wanted to talk about an issue they assumed no one else struggled with – stress, worry and anxiety. In case you’re one of these “unique” individuals, I’d like to offer some insight. You’re not the only one. The truth is we’re all...
“I don’t know.”

“I don’t know.”

These 3 words terrify most people (especially overachievers). We’ve convinced ourselves (with the help social media, the news, Google®, etc.) that we should know the exact answer to (or at the very least, have an opinion about) every question/topic imaginable. This...
Body Talk with Richard Newman

Body Talk with Richard Newman

(Download Episode Here) (Subscribe to the Podcast Here) (Connect with CJ) In the hybrid world, there are more ways to communicate than ever before, but finding true connection and engagement still eludes many of us. Without the ability to effectively engage an...
Ditch the Dream Board

Ditch the Dream Board

One of the first things I did when I started my business in 2003 was to build a Dream Board. It was a collage of everything I could possibly dream of acquiring – a big house, nice cars, Rolex, boat, vacations, hair, etc. I lived under the impression that if I looked...
An unexpected outcome…

An unexpected outcome…

Typically, I struggle to celebrate a win if I can’t measure it in Excel. (I recognize I’ve got issues.) Last week, I took an unscheduled call (a friend of a friend) that didn’t generate any revenue, nor will it ever. As a result, that person said that my words...
Stop fighting anxiety

Stop fighting anxiety

We all feel anxious from time to time. Over the years, I’ve tried everything to avoid feeling that frantic panic that comes from being out of control. Here’s what I’ve learned: fighting it makes it worse. You cannot keep thoughts or emotions from...
Expectation is the root of all heartache

Expectation is the root of all heartache

“Expectation is the root of all heartache.” – William Shakespeare We’re drowning in self-help books, videos, podcasts, and memes promising that if you work hard enough every minute of your life should be filled with unbridled joy. All this success advice...
Be wary of comfortable

Be wary of comfortable

I favor comfort over pain, and I’d rather engage in activities where the outcome was certain. Know anyone like me? Unfortunately, all meaningful growth comes from failure, uncertainty, and heartache. Be wary of the comfortable existence where everything goes as...
The Magic of Surrender with Kute Blackson

The Magic of Surrender with Kute Blackson

(Download Episode Here) (Subscribe to the Podcast Here) (Connect with CJ) Kute Blackson has been called the mindfulness guru that billionaires go to for advice. He’s been featured on Larry King Now, Dr. Drew, NPR, Fox and Friends, Mind Body Green, and many more....
What’s success anyway?

What’s success anyway?

What does it mean to be successful? Over the years, I’ve seen a handful of ideas: Hard work – success is directly related to the amount of effort you put toward any endeavor. Perseverance – success is the ability to bounce back from failure. Making a Difference –...
Worry much? You’re not alone…

Worry much? You’re not alone…

In one of the largest studies of burnout, Gallup found that 60% of people are emotionally detached at work and 19% are miserable. Miserable? The study further found that employees in the United States and Canada are the most worried and stressed-out workers in the...
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