Control’s Mirage

Control’s Mirage

Overachievers believe that with enough planning, they can control the outcome. The truth? Life is in control.  <>  It never ceases to amaze me how often I need to be reminded that control is a myth. Life is uncertain and almost completely unpredictable. Yet,...
It’s official. Giving makes you happier.

It’s official. Giving makes you happier.

There’s a secret to how you give. Get it wrong, and you’ll feel nothing. Get it right, and it’ll change everything.  <>  “Engaging in benevolent acts and expecting kindness from others both matter for individual happiness levels…. the wellbeing...
The M-E in Teams

The M-E in Teams

Overachievers sometimes believe that multitasking makes them smarter or worth more. Here’s what it really says… <>  A few days ago, I was on a Teams meeting, barely participating. I had my camera on (microphone muted) and spent the entire meeting...
The Stillness Beyond No

The Stillness Beyond No

What if fewer commitments meant more peace? <>  I love it when one of my clients sits down across the table from me with a wide grin and announces that they’ve just turned down an opportunity to add another commitment to their plate. Few things bring me more joy...
Put On Their Lens

Put On Their Lens

Better communication requires you to get up and sit in a different seat. Literally. <>  Since I moved into my new office (10+ years), I’ve had a unique ritual. Roughly once a month, I will get up from behind my desk and take the seat my clients normally occupy....
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